Extinguish the Flaming Social Media Trashpile!

Dec 31, 2021 | Op-Ed, Technical & How-To

The “Fire Tetrahedron” of Social Media

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Fuel

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Heat Source

Oxygen

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Chain Reaction

  • Does the headline match the content or is it just “click bait” that will set a reader up for disappointment?
  • If the thing you’re sharing is a news article, is it grounded in fact? Is it written by an ethical journalist or published by a reputable, reasonably-unbiased media outlet? Are sources cited, so that you can verify for yourself that the original information says what the article claims it says? Have you ever done that – checked the original sources to see if they say what it’s claimed they say?In 2008, a friend forwarded the email (shown on a blue background, dated Jan 6, 2008, though there were earlier versions of it as well) to me and asked me if it could be true. The original email contained a live link to snopes.com – where snopes is mentioned. Click the blue text – sure enough, there’s an article on snopes debunking the email itself. It was at this point I started paying closer attention to politics and political parties, and realized just how much seething hostility and lies lurked under the surface. None of this serves us, the people of this nation – or the world. None of it.
  • If what you’re sharing is an opinion piece, is it clearly presented as such, and is the bias clearly understood by all? Do you agree with the content of the opinion piece you’re sharing, or do you just think it’s a funny, catchy headline that sums up a thought you had – until you thought more deeply on the subject? Read A Pillow Full of Feathers before sharing.
  • A story about yourself, that’s true. Be sure to include details and avoid all temptation to exaggerate the heroic bits, unless someone else is the hero and you are thanking them.
  • A story about someone you know personally, provided you were involved in the action or have their permission to tell the story where you intend to share it.
  • Artwork posted by an artist-friend, which they shared online and which has sharing buttons you can use – to promote them and their art. (In other words, share – don’t download, then upload a copy of their art to your post!)
  • Stories, poems, and blog posts written by your friends, which they shared online and which have sharing buttons you can use – to promote them and their writing. (In other words, share – don’t copy and paste their words into a new post of your own.)
  • Links to books friends have had published, so that people can find out more and buy them.
  • A funny meme found on a site full of funny memes, or a photo found on a free stock photo site – shared in accordance with their Terms of Service.
  • A thought-provoking question and discussion of a topic that interests you.
  • A poll you made.
  • A compliment or expression of thanks to someone.
  • A funny cat video (again, of your own cat – or use the proper sharing buttons!)

Holly Jahangiri

Holly Jahangiri is the author of Trockle, illustrated by Jordan Vinyard; A Puppy, Not a Guppy, illustrated by Ryan Shaw; and the newest release: A New Leaf for Lyle, illustrated by Carrie Salazar. She draws inspiration from her family, from her own childhood adventures (some of which only happened in her overactive imagination), and from readers both young and young-at-heart. She lives in Houston, Texas, with her husband, J.J., whose love and encouragement make writing books twice the fun.

2 Comments

  1. Mitchell Allen

    I thoroughly enjoyed this article, yet I have no tips. I wish I could assert that I am a responsible chemical reagent. LOL

    The only point upon which I disagree is the extent to which “Burn, baby, burn!” is harmful to discourse on targeted platforms. Acceding to the rules of an abusive platform for the sole purpose of having the ability to keep in touch with people is a bit Machiavellian. Why must Facebook “rule” over those of us with no agenda other than to share vacation pictures with Aunt Betsy?

    To make my point, consider how nearly impossible it is to delete your Facebook account.

    Anyway, Happy New Year and keep telling it like it is.

    Cheers,

    Mitch

  2. Holly Jahangiri

    Thanks, Mitch!

    The folks who ONLY use Facebook to share photos and keep in touch with the fam aren’t the problem, are they? My “Burn, baby, burn!” comment refers to the ones who have become convinced they have to be popular – like in middle school. There are just so many people selling the idea (along with courses and blog posts and apps, oh my!) that people don’t stop to think “what is this hamster wheel going to get me, really?”

    There’s just no real ROI to it, for most of us. I don’t know many authors who are selling lots of books or recouping advertising costs on Facebook, and I recently reviewed and commented on a silicone and filter mask I bought after seeing it on Facebook – told the company they almost LOST me as a customer because everything I’ve bought from a Facebook or Instagram ad was a scam. Know what they said? “You have no idea how hard we have to fight that perception every day.” I told them I was pretty sure I did, and that’s why I felt compelled to help.

    It’s really a case of “damned if you do, damned if you don’t.” People now feel they HAVE to play the game, and it’s even making great Aunt Bertha antsy.

 


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